With that ‘hole’ comes the manic surge of self-loathing, self-doubt and intense shame.Like a junkie requiring something, anything to take the edge off, the narcissist has to get out into the world to start extracting narcissistic supply in order to feel better.
I have worked with narcissistic individuals, and this I promise you.
They all report the They have all told me that when they wake up in the morning they are plagued by a huge inner ‘hole’, an intense pain and anxiety within them.
I had achieved two separate houses and titles before meeting my ex-narcissist.
After separating I moved from a beautiful large property to a small unit with a mortgage. Was my ex-narcissist dating, wining, dining, buying new and better cars and having a wow of a time? Obviously staying a victim to all of this was not going to serve me.
As a result they never the pain is so extreme that you now have no option other than to deal with your disowned parts and heal – because you are not going to be able to get back up on your feet and create a great life unless you do…
Boy did I finally we are in the perfect position to take responsibility, be with our pain, heal our inner programs and unfinished childhood business, and transform into the individual and life we really want to be.But please understand material possessions cannot grant genuine happiness.Bliss, joy, connection to life, source and self is never achieved through material possessions, activities or other people, it is only ever achieved through our soul, through our connection to our True Self.That is until we took the value of life to a much deeper, spiritual and soul level – a level where we could really .When I separated from my narcissistic relationship, I lost almost everything I owned.There is no end to using up people and commodities, burning them out and having to keep moving on.