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Once I realized that I did nearly everything wrong that I could possibly do wrong, I wanted to cry.
When I looked at my list it was obvious that I basically forced women to lose respect for me.
The guys who get them naked are the ones who are calm and confident and who don’t have to act like a dancing monkey. If she takes your number and she takes you on a date she won’t take her clothes off.
One major reason why women lose respect for men is crappy leadership. A woman wants to feel safe and secure with the guy she is dating.
For a long time I didn’t know an answer to this question.
About two years ago I already overcame my approach anxiety and I was able to talk to every girl, no matter how attractive she was.
While you think that you are her knight in shining armor who will love her forever, she thinks that you are a needy creep who she clearly doesn’t want to spend the night with. In case you would see me infield (maybe you will one day) you would never believe that I transform the numbers that I get into sex. The reason why you wouldn’t believe that is because you are brainwashed to believe that you have to act like a dancing monkey to get girls. From the minute you meet her it is your job to lead her through the seduction process.
A respectful man puts only one person on a pedestal and this person is himself. The most famous pick up videos on You Tube are the ones where guys spin the girls around, give them high fives and crack jokes every two seconds. Girls give them their numbers as a reward for the entertainment, but they only see those dancing monkeys as good friends. You take her number, you take her on a date and you take her clothes off.
One way to find out for a woman if you have what it takes is by testing whether or not you are comfortable with your sexual desires.
One reason why women lose respect for men, that a lot of men tend to ignore, is because they put them on a pedestal.
Otherwise, your dating life will be pretty shitty, because women will eventually lose their respect for you.