I personally still get emails from Match saying I have messages or so and so winked and I haven’t logged onto that site in over two years.
I am not on a dating site, even though it appears I am. So before your analyzing mind goes into overdrive, make sure that he is actually active and doesn’t just have some dormant profile up there.
I did this once and the next day he emailed me the confirmations from Match that he had indeed cancelled his account and I didn’t have to ask him to do it.
He did it on his own and problem was resolved with no drama. you need to seriously consider if it’s time to walk away from the relationship: If a man is still active on a dating site, his options are open and you options should remain open as well. Listen to these two classes to really deal with this the Goddessy Way: “How To be High Value And Easy To Lose And How It Can Inspire Men To Step Up” and “How To Manage Your Emotional Investment When He’s Been Stepping Up But Hasn’t Claimed You.” Even when he has claimed you verbally, your job to observe never stops.
Above all stay calm and relaxed in your Feminine energy and don’t fly off the handle and lose control of your emotions. So observe, observe and adjust your investment to his.
Katarina always says to be always on the same page as him at all time.
Hi Meredith, I have been with my husband for 12 years, and married for almost 10. A few months after my second one was born, I happened upon a dating site left open on my husband's laptop. We have never had a great sex life because of issues on both sides.
He had not only created a profile but also corresponded with several women looking to have an intimate fling. It's something we have both tried to work on, off and on.They are pacing the relationship in their own minds to a degree. At this moment, today, right now, you are most likely more invested and farther ahead in this relationship than he is. Managing your emotions is something that you will be glad you did later down the road as opposed to going bat shit crazy on him.We are not in our Feminine Energy when we act bat shit crazy and it’s just not attractive. Consider how you discovered this gut wrenching piece of information.I don’t care what he tells you or what excuse he gives.Unless he is a complete idiot, he is aware this would not make you happy.You withdraw emotionally when you see he’s not actually fully in.