She is very mono and has no interest in going outside the marriage for sex.My quarrel with you has to do with your oft-repeated advice that people should break things off with partners who don't perform oral sex.
My boyfriend of five years has developed a strange fascination. (Spoiler: He's bi, bicurious, or so homoflexible he could tour with Cirque du Soleil.) If you're not interested in having sex with women, tell him so.
We've always watched porn together, but now he has been looking at straight porn and even lesbian porn (!!! More than once he has expressed an interest in having a MMF threesome—and he's a self-proclaimed gold-star gay! On the other hand, we still have sex pretty frequently. Guy Alarmed, Yeah, By Younger Boyfriend's Interest Turning bi? If being with you means he can never have sex with a woman, tell him so.
Anyway, I was really looking forward to him jacking me off and vice versa.
But when I arrived, he said he was only interested in me giving him a massage and then a handjob.
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After we were finished, he indicated that he might hit me up again.
Do you think I should continue with the massage and "happy ending" in hopes he will someday feel comfortable enough to reciprocate?
Early on, when we discussed how open our marriage should be, we decided it would be all right for me to see escorts several times a year.
This gives me some sexual variety and keeps her from feeling threatened by my becoming emotionally involved with a third party.
She went on to say that she is considering changing from poly to nonmonogamous. I'm certainly nonmonogamous, but I've never thought of myself as poly. Confused Over Lines Inside Names I would describe the difference as googleable, COLIN.